Girl Interrupted.

…Have you heard this before and felt confused? You shouldn’t have because the statement is correct. I’ve grown to notice that alot of females in particularly do not understand this statement and I’m solely going off of what I’ve heard from my female counterparts and comments I’ve seen on some relationship blog sites on Yahoo. Seemingly, they do not understand this very statement whatsoever. Maybe because they’re too young to understand it (my girlfriends) maybe. I don’t know…

This (the statement) is not hard to understand…probably you don’t want to understand it is the case. You’re all like “ooh, girl, he’s the one” after only going out on five dates… Does that even make sense? Five dates and he’s the ONE? Shooo, it takes me atleast three to four months to actually say I love you and mean it and you’re saying he’s the one after five encounters.

I’m assuming you let him get a whip of your icing after the first date and got whipped yourself. He can’t be the “one” that quick. Men will do what ever it takes to make it seem like they’re the “perfect gentleman” on those first couple of dates so that they can get to those good-goods. Later down the road you will see that they’re really a toad. Shame, shame, shame. Ladies do not put yourself out there so fast. He’ll eventually think you’re too easy and not worth having a relationship with (in some cases). You date to gain access to a relationship.

Just because you’re dating someone does not mean you two are in a relationship. To move from dating into a relationship, you two must sit and discuss being exclusive. If you two have not had this conversation then you two are very much single. Now, I’m not saying right off the back (after like five dates) to talk about it, give it a good month or two. Communication is one of the many keys to a long lasting relationship. If the guy says “why do we need titles to establish our love for one another”, he’s clearly trying to play the fields still because he knows when it comes to titles he’s locked in for sure. Ladies do not fall for that mess. It’s an excuse, do not be naive. Especially if you two been together for awhile now.

Dating = Single Relationship = Exclusive

I don’t understand the reasons why men (and some ladies) are attracted to the allure of a stripper/video vixens/porn stars/groupies… Ok, actually I DO know, let me not lie, but why is what I’m asking….

Here are some reasons I assume people lust over these types of people:

1. They’re easy to get on their backs.
2. No bullshit… they’re do what you want, when you want it, and how you want it (easy, like I said).
3. No strings are attached. No commitment, just booty for days (I can hear men scream “hell yeah” on this one).
4. They’re bodies are amazing (do you see how flexible mama is)!!

Those are just the main “quote-on-quote” positive reasons why men flock to these degenerates.  However, men fail miserably about the other aspects that may occur because you’re too blinded by the booty, their outer appearance instead of the vindictive mind game they’re about to bestow on you.  You often hear about celebrities getting screwed over (literally) by these gold digging scoundrels and you wonder if they will ever learn their lesson by not messing with these heathens.  

Side Note:

 ….Don’t get me wrong, I just expect more out of these ladies (excuse the name calling). The ones that are in these “professions” would say they didn’t have no where else to turn (i.e. the strippers) for money so they’re taking it all off to make aquick dollar…. I see this as an excuse. You can find a job that does not require you to take it all off. Get two jobs if you have to if you’re not in school already.  Work towards a dream and get off that  disease-ridden pole. You can’t get mad if a man treats you like a Kleenex and tosses you away… You chose that lifestyle and you must deal with the outcome that it will brings…. 

Celebrities, especially entertainers in the music industry, must not care about their careers.  Now, I know it’s like a thing in the hip-hop industry to demolish as many groupies and video whores as possible, but do you really think that’s a good idea?  That can backfire on you if you tend to give too much time and affection to one of them.  These ladies do not and I repeat DO NOT add money into your account, they will deplete your account.  Majority of them just want that lavish lifestyle of not doing anything but shopping, eating at the finest restaurants, and traveling.  I can really hear your bank accounts crying when you spend X-amount of dollars on these girls.  They think if they ride like Ciara (I had to take it there), you will keep them around longer and crown them “wifey”.  If not, expect the exposure of your privacy à la Kat Stacks style (it’s Kat Stacks beeech)… 

Sorry… These girls will not make you look good in public (that’s why I understand you keep them in the shadows), however this is a new generation of whores and they’re talking extremely too much.  These social sites are not making it any better.  Twitter is the destroyer of relationships and the images of celebrities.  Why risk your careers with these girls? What’s the real “allure” about these girls….there is none, it’s an illusion.  You can find a woman with better qualities than these girls.  The problem is you sleaze bags do not have patient to erect a relationship.  You rather erect that “friend” of yours that is between your legs.  That friend of yours shol enuff gets you in a lot of trouble if you ask me.  

To sum up, find a woman that is sophisticated and poise.  A woman who’s driven and has her head on her shoulders.  A woman that is not only beautiful on the outside, but more beautiful on the inside…. Find a woman who can upgrade you or make you look like a million bucks in front of your employers or other business people.  Lastly, find a woman who give you all of those qualities plus the quality to rip you apart in the bedroom.  It’s not hard, you gotta have patient because those women are worth the wait.

The first lady of the Bay, Jimmie Reign, is back with an all new album entitledPretty Girl.  Pretty Girl was released today on May 25th and you can listen to a few of the songs on her website.  While you’re at it, purchaseJimmie Reign’s Pretty Girlalbum…It’s worth every penny. Ms. Reign also has a webisode series called “Pretty Girl: The Ugly Truth” onAllHipHop.com